Great for her. Not everyone wins the genetic lottery on brainpower and emotional resilience. I know that my own emotional resilience has increased over the ye

Great for her. Not everyone wins the genetic lottery on brainpower and emotional resilience. I know that my own emotional resilience has increased over the years - demarcated by reading the right fiction, oddly enough - but I'm not under the illusion that this means anyone can just grit their teeth and get it. Yes, taking responsibility is also part of it, but... if it's anyone besides yourself that you're judging, try to have some compassion.