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You're getting a bunch of joking shitpost replies, but a useful answer is that it's very common for people to become furries first and then later realize they a

You're getting a bunch of joking shitpost replies, but a useful answer is that it's very common for people to become furries first and then later realize they are trans, presumably because the feelings of body dysmorphia convince you that something is mismatched between your felt sense and outward appearance, but you only nail it down as gender dysphoria later.

RebeccaTheDev 10mo ago
To add on to this: if you're a "guy" still trying to feel out some really confusing feelings, playing a vixen online allows you to explore those feelings without it impacting your real life. It's the same reason it's pretty common for trans people to report preferring to play characters of their true gender in video games. It gives you a safe, low-stakes way to explore gender. With furry especially, that particular fandom has for decades been openly and loudly supportive of LGBTQ+ people and a very very significant percentage are queer. It's a very, very safe place for exploration.
- OhioMan2943 10mo ago
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  - shakna 10mo ago
    If you experience gender dysmorphia, being forced to adopt the norms of the disconnected gender is far more psychologically damaging than exploration of something else. Cognitive restructuring, aka adopting a new norm, is the DSM recommendation, because it usually works. Exploration is healthy.
  - tbrownaw 10mo ago
    One good way to make screen time (online; video games) slightly less unhealthy is a standing desk.
  - periodjet 10mo ago
    I mean, it’s quite obviously not to anyone with even a tiny modicum of common sense, and I say this as a trans person (although not a furry). Modern psychology has built up an incredible memeplex that is accepted unquestioningly despite being an enormous load of bullshit / giant house of cards. All relativist extremists fall back on it and use it to justify their detachments from and disdain for the shared reality we all inhabit together. Sad to witness, and only growing stronger, it seems.
platevoltage 10mo ago
It's also very common for trans people to become furries. Furry conventions and meetups are a great way to exist in public without judgement. Outside of the community, you're just playing dress up, and you're anonymous. Brian from the YouTube channel Regular Car Reviews did a YouTube short that explains this pretty well. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2xfwA-668SI https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2xfwA-668SI

RebeccaTheDev 10mo ago

To add on to this: if you're a "guy" still trying to feel out some really confusing feelings, playing a vixen online allows you to explore those feelings without it impacting your real life. It's the same reason it's pretty common for trans people to report preferring to play characters of their true gender in video games. It gives you a safe, low-stakes way to explore gender. With furry especially, that particular fandom has for decades been openly and loudly supportive of LGBTQ+ people and a very very significant percentage are queer. It's a very, very safe place for exploration.

OhioMan2943 10mo ago
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- shakna 10mo ago
  If you experience gender dysmorphia, being forced to adopt the norms of the disconnected gender is far more psychologically damaging than exploration of something else. Cognitive restructuring, aka adopting a new norm, is the DSM recommendation, because it usually works. Exploration is healthy.
- tbrownaw 10mo ago
  One good way to make screen time (online; video games) slightly less unhealthy is a standing desk.
- periodjet 10mo ago
  I mean, it’s quite obviously not to anyone with even a tiny modicum of common sense, and I say this as a trans person (although not a furry). Modern psychology has built up an incredible memeplex that is accepted unquestioningly despite being an enormous load of bullshit / giant house of cards. All relativist extremists fall back on it and use it to justify their detachments from and disdain for the shared reality we all inhabit together. Sad to witness, and only growing stronger, it seems.

platevoltage 10mo ago

It's also very common for trans people to become furries. Furry conventions and meetups are a great way to exist in public without judgement. Outside of the community, you're just playing dress up, and you're anonymous. Brian from the YouTube channel Regular Car Reviews did a YouTube short that explains this pretty well. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2xfwA-668SI https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2xfwA-668SI