With having kids, there is no 'right' time. Life is too unpredictable and hard and chaotic to get all your ducks in a row for that long. But there are very muc

With having kids, there is no 'right' time. Life is too unpredictable and hard and chaotic to get all your ducks in a row for that long. But there are very much worse times. Clearly. However, the adage with marriage applies with kids too: Marriage is not a capstone, its a cornerstone. You build a life together. The same is sorta true with kids.