>> "It seems self-evident to me that if a man is using porn heavily for self-gratification, he's not going to view a randomly-met woman as a whole person (and v

>> "It seems self-evident to me that if a man is using porn heavily for self-gratification, he's not going to view a randomly-met woman as a whole person (and vice versa? I don't really know), but instead will be judging her based on how "hot" she appears to him, or how she might feed his fantasies. (That's the "just body parts" in my original quip.)" Sorry, but the majority of men in my experience do that anyway. So either they're all 'using porn heavily for self-gratification', or they're just red blooded males who like the way women are put together. I hate to say it, but I think you should lighten up a bit...