Strongly agree, but we (or at least me for sure) are not qualified to help OP determine why he doesn’t find his partner sexually attractive at the moment/anymor

Strongly agree, but we (or at least me for sure) are not qualified to help OP determine why he doesn’t find his partner sexually attractive at the moment/anymore. It could be depression if he has it, but it also could be the desire for their partner has permanently evaporated, that’s why I recommended a practitioner who would have “boots on the ground” in this regard. Just erroring on the side of caution considering the stakes (who you partner with and/or who you have children with are the most important decisions one can make, when considering downstream outcomes).