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Every parking lot is an opportunity for community. In my experience tailgating is considerably more than minutes and has a very strong community. Admittedly I d

by ofalkaed 10mo ago

Every parking lot is an opportunity for community. In my experience tailgating is considerably more than minutes and has a very strong community. Admittedly I do not have much experience with tailgating but my limited experience strongly suggests that it is a very tight knit community that goes beyond the actual event.

vel0city 10mo ago
Parking lots are private spaces where the store management can ask you to leave at any time. That some don't is almost a happy accident. Compared to a public park where anyone is free to loiter and play. Plus parks are usually segregated from cars so you don't have to worry about a random car not paying attention killing you, the ground isn't hot pavement everywhere, there might be playground equipment and benches and picnic tables, etc.
- ofalkaed 10mo ago
  Cities own parking lots but privately owned parking lots are generally easier to get access to for events, far less red tape and who ever owns it gets brownie points with the community.
  - vel0city 10mo ago
    Not the reality around me. Almost all parking lots are privately owned. This is true for just about every US city I've ever lived in. Every Walmart, every Target, every big store has its own parking lot that is private property.
    - ofalkaed 10mo ago
      Who said anything about big stores? Every big city I have lived in has had a stadium and parking lots owned by either the stadium or third parties which allow tailgating and I have been to/was involved in a good many events held in private parking lots. Big stores open 7 days a week if not 24 hours a day are obviously not going to sacrifice their parking lots but a good number of parking lots are mostly vacant on the weekends, they serve the 5 days a week, 9-5 buisness world and they are more willing to sacrifice their mostly empty weekend lots.
      - vel0city 10mo ago
        > Every big city I have lived in has had a stadium and parking lots owned by either the stadium or third parties So not the city, the stadium corporation (which might have ties to the city, but usually a wholly separate organization) or private third parties. Like I said. > they are more willing to sacrifice their mostly empty weekend lots. Once again I've had a lot of very mixed experiences on this one. Some don't care, some see it as an insurance liability. I've spent a lot of my life adjacent to commerical property management, I can't imagine most of these groups being thoroughly OK with unknown groups using their lots for whatever. Seems like a good chance to get sued.

vel0city 10mo ago

Parking lots are private spaces where the store management can ask you to leave at any time. That some don't is almost a happy accident. Compared to a public park where anyone is free to loiter and play. Plus parks are usually segregated from cars so you don't have to worry about a random car not paying attention killing you, the ground isn't hot pavement everywhere, there might be playground equipment and benches and picnic tables, etc.

ofalkaed 10mo ago
Cities own parking lots but privately owned parking lots are generally easier to get access to for events, far less red tape and who ever owns it gets brownie points with the community.
- vel0city 10mo ago
  Not the reality around me. Almost all parking lots are privately owned. This is true for just about every US city I've ever lived in. Every Walmart, every Target, every big store has its own parking lot that is private property.
  - ofalkaed 10mo ago
    Who said anything about big stores? Every big city I have lived in has had a stadium and parking lots owned by either the stadium or third parties which allow tailgating and I have been to/was involved in a good many events held in private parking lots. Big stores open 7 days a week if not 24 hours a day are obviously not going to sacrifice their parking lots but a good number of parking lots are mostly vacant on the weekends, they serve the 5 days a week, 9-5 buisness world and they are more willing to sacrifice their mostly empty weekend lots.
    - vel0city 10mo ago
      > Every big city I have lived in has had a stadium and parking lots owned by either the stadium or third parties So not the city, the stadium corporation (which might have ties to the city, but usually a wholly separate organization) or private third parties. Like I said. > they are more willing to sacrifice their mostly empty weekend lots. Once again I've had a lot of very mixed experiences on this one. Some don't care, some see it as an insurance liability. I've spent a lot of my life adjacent to commerical property management, I can't imagine most of these groups being thoroughly OK with unknown groups using their lots for whatever. Seems like a good chance to get sued.