Ah, I think I just got it. You mean "fulfilling". Not balanced, balanced means something else. You seem to think I'm trying to tell people how to live when I a

Ah, I think I just got it. You mean "fulfilling". Not balanced, balanced means something else. You seem to think I'm trying to tell people how to live when I am actually trying to tell you that you are using the wrong word to express your idea. I agree with your point wholeheartedly by the way, I was just confused by your use of the word balanced to mean fulfilled.