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The person simply sounds defensive, trying to convince themselves that not having fun was fun. So the reply made a good point.
by fr84 14y ago
The person simply sounds defensive, trying to convince themselves that not having fun was fun. So the reply made a good point.
- Livven 14y agoDefensive, yes, but defensive to whom — herself or "most people" who think her high school years were terrible? Imagine: You have a different notion of happiness than most others, so people constantly tell you that you're not happy — even though you are. Naturally, you'll get defensive over time, but then those same people will see that as a sign that you're in fact not happy. Catch 22. In other words: stop being condescending.