Gross. Sexist much? There are different social standards for men and women having almost nothing to do with appearance. While a man might appear to be passive

Gross. Sexist much? There are different social standards for men and women having almost nothing to do with appearance. While a man might appear to be passive aggressive in a negative way if his advice isn't assertive enough, a woman will look like a pushy bitch if she's too assertive. It cuts both ways.