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Yes, I have to agree: this is a creep filter, basically. Showing that you have strong relationships both maintained from your past relationships as well as cur
by ddellacosta 14y ago
Yes, I have to agree: this is a creep filter, basically. Showing that you have strong relationships both maintained from your past relationships as well as currently, is incredibly important for those things that matter in the long run to anyone who wants a family: being a part of a strong community, showing that you care about your relationships enough to nurture them and sustain them, etc. There are some goofy things on this list, but this strikes me as evidence of maturity, however awkwardly expressed.
- w1ntermute 14y ago> Showing that you have strong relationships both maintained from your past relationships I don't know about you, but I wouldn't consider a Facebook relationship to be "strong".
- ddellacosta 14y agoYeah, I mean, assuming they are on FB is silly, but having them at all is an important thing, I think, which is what she is saying I believe.
- w1ntermute 14y agoRight, I understand the underlying motive, but the tone of the entire post just had me in stitches. Besides, one of the first things to keep in mind while forming a long-term romantic relationship is that you will frequently have to compromise. Writing a list like this and posting it on GitHub doesn't give guys the impression that this is a woman willing to compromise.
- mathrawka 14y agoWell, you can always fork it and create a pull request. If she accepts it, consider that compromising, so you can compromise thanks to git! Now that would be a good story to share at the wedding.