We need you (i.e. everyone) to follow the rules regardless of how others are behaving. It always feels like the other person started it and did worse (https://

We need you (i.e. everyone) to follow the rules regardless of how others are behaving. It always feels like the other person started it and did worse (https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&query=by%3Adang%20other%20started%20worse&sort=byDate&type=comment https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&que...), so you (i.e. all of us) can't rely on that as a basis for responding. It leads to a downward spiral, and eventually scorched earth.