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Socialising != Social media. Teens can still use messenger, WhatsApp, phonecalls, text or even....face to face!

baby 10mo ago
That's true. I'll say this though: my social life skyrocketed thanks to Facebook when I was ~18. Not sure what kind of impact it would have had earlier, I was def. more of a kid and social medias were not a thing anyway. Makes sense to me to have an age limit considering cyber bullying and teen suicides and all.
- kahmeal 10mo ago
  Facebook then wasn't what facebook is today. The social media of the early internet was largely a digital expansion of otherwise healthy social norms. Then the internet blew up. Now it's more akin to the drug dealers DARE warned us about. Still waiting on _those_ free drugs, tbh.
- jsphweid 10mo ago
  What year was it when you were 18? Facebook was enormous for me when I was 18, in 2008, for similar reasons. However, these days facebook is mostly just ads and generic modern feed garbage content in general.
- rhines 10mo ago
  Social media is no longer social - it's just media. At least for most people anyway. The average user, and probably kids even more so, are just scrolling through. If you're posting as well, or at least commenting on stuff and having discussions with people you know (even if you just know them online), I think that's fine. Like forums, or being in group chats with friends on Facebook, or sharing photos you take with a specific community. It's when you're only consuming (like scrolling TikTok or Instagram), or when your comments are written for the algorithm rather than for actual discussion (like on Reddit, or even Hackernews to an extent), that social media is an issue.
  - Tom1380 10mo ago
    What is meant by writing comments for the algorithm?
    - rhines 10mo ago
      Or upvotes might be a better example, at least for Reddit/Hackernews. But the idea being that the comments are sorted based on some algorithm, whether than be popularity or something else, and commenters are trying to optimize for that. In traditional forums where comments are sorted linearly and it's more about having a discussion with others, but when comments are surfaced by other metrics then it's less about the discussion and more about gaming those metrics.
- gffrd 10mo ago
  It’s possible your social life would have exploded without Facebook. If you found a community on Facebook, you’d likely have found it regardless without it.
- globular-toast 10mo ago
  Yeah because all your peers were on it. It wouldn't have skyrocketed if they weren't.

baby 10mo ago

That's true. I'll say this though: my social life skyrocketed thanks to Facebook when I was ~18. Not sure what kind of impact it would have had earlier, I was def. more of a kid and social medias were not a thing anyway. Makes sense to me to have an age limit considering cyber bullying and teen suicides and all.

kahmeal 10mo ago
Facebook then wasn't what facebook is today. The social media of the early internet was largely a digital expansion of otherwise healthy social norms. Then the internet blew up. Now it's more akin to the drug dealers DARE warned us about. Still waiting on _those_ free drugs, tbh.
jsphweid 10mo ago
What year was it when you were 18? Facebook was enormous for me when I was 18, in 2008, for similar reasons. However, these days facebook is mostly just ads and generic modern feed garbage content in general.
rhines 10mo ago
Social media is no longer social - it's just media. At least for most people anyway. The average user, and probably kids even more so, are just scrolling through. If you're posting as well, or at least commenting on stuff and having discussions with people you know (even if you just know them online), I think that's fine. Like forums, or being in group chats with friends on Facebook, or sharing photos you take with a specific community. It's when you're only consuming (like scrolling TikTok or Instagram), or when your comments are written for the algorithm rather than for actual discussion (like on Reddit, or even Hackernews to an extent), that social media is an issue.
- Tom1380 10mo ago
  What is meant by writing comments for the algorithm?
  - rhines 10mo ago
    Or upvotes might be a better example, at least for Reddit/Hackernews. But the idea being that the comments are sorted based on some algorithm, whether than be popularity or something else, and commenters are trying to optimize for that. In traditional forums where comments are sorted linearly and it's more about having a discussion with others, but when comments are surfaced by other metrics then it's less about the discussion and more about gaming those metrics.
gffrd 10mo ago
It’s possible your social life would have exploded without Facebook. If you found a community on Facebook, you’d likely have found it regardless without it.
globular-toast 10mo ago
Yeah because all your peers were on it. It wouldn't have skyrocketed if they weren't.