Either you don't understand what an analogy is, your misunderstand this one in particular. My point was that both do something which benefits me that directly

Either you don't understand what an analogy is, your misunderstand this one in particular. My point was that both do something which benefits me that directly disadvantages other people. When people talk about their massive truck feeling safer, somehow this dynamic is ignored. But if someone applied the same reasoning about standing up in a movie theater, the selfishness is apparent to everyone.