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Ok I will give you a simple method to separate the 2 groups of nerds and hustlers. Now this is not fool proof, but is good for about 80% of the time. If they
by sloaken 11mo ago
Ok I will give you a simple method to separate the 2 groups of nerds and hustlers. Now this is not fool proof, but is good for about 80% of the time.
If they approach you - Hustler.
If you HAVE to start the conversation - Nerd - you might have to restart it too.
Most nerds are so involved in tech that they do not spend time working on social skills.
Most hustlers skip the tech and refine their social skills.
So find some techie forums / meetup / events and start interacting.
Myself I can fake social for about 15 to 30 minutes, but then I am exhausted. And I could not hustle my way out of a paper bag.
- bunnybomb2 11mo agoThis is good advice I never understood the point of coffee chats There is no way we will develop a relationship naturally within these 30 minutes, and now its awkward if you ask me for something. Too transactional I assume they are all hustlers.. Lol!
- omegared8 11mo agoEhh I am the nerd and I’ll start the convo. I actually think this gets me in trouble. People judge the book by the cover. This question ignores that this problem exists with people as a whole. People after all are full of emotions and are ego driven. I think that most of people’s negative responses intimately boil down to fear… This new hire makes me look bad I am worried that so and so is better than me What if their implementation is better and their company does better than mine Instead of being happy and comfortable with the uncomfortable people react poorly