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Can we stop labeling anything that makes someone 'unhappy' as abusive. Its not and i'm tired of pretending it is.
by worthless-trash 11mo ago
Can we stop labeling anything that makes someone 'unhappy' as abusive. Its not and i'm tired of pretending it is.
- k1t 11mo agoInstalling cameras to control/monitor your spouse is definitely abusive behavior.
- worthless-trash 11mo agoYou cant CONTROL someone with observation, you can influence, but you can't control. If this were true people would act a lot better in public, they do not.
- throwawaylaptop 11mo agoThank you. Words matter. I notice most gfs these days resort to "why do I have to..." when upset. Which bothers me because I have never ever said someone MUST do anything. There are many things a person should do. But almost nothing they actually have to do.
- R_D_Olivaw 11mo agoThis is absolutely abusive behavior. Placing a camera to watch a partner so they don't do something is controlling and removes human agency. That.is.abuse. How about we stop letting abusers think that human beings are property meant to be controlled.
- worthless-trash 11mo agoAre your cameras at work watching you abusive, is your macbook camera abusive, is your zoom calls abusive ? Nobody controls anyone with an camera, this is no different than leaving a note to your kids "DONT EAT ALL THE FOOD IN THE FRIDGE". Its the misuse of it that is abusive.
- worthless-trash 11mo agoVote down a all you want. Your anger shows your weakness.