The dynamic of both-sidesism is generally that of absolving one side based on the actions of the other. What I have said has the opposite sense - I am condemnin

The dynamic of both-sidesism is generally that of absolving one side based on the actions of the other. What I have said has the opposite sense - I am condemning the actions of one side by pointing out they are coming from the exact same place as things they condemn the other side for. Their red pill is "just another system of control", but they reject that fact since it's their turn to pretend to be in control.