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From what I understand he wasn’t actively doing hard drugs, but had earlier in his life. Maybe that’s not correct. I’m not sure. But if he was addicted and she
by ericmay 11mo ago
From what I understand he wasn’t actively doing hard drugs, but had earlier in his life. Maybe that’s not correct. I’m not sure. But if he was addicted and she or anyone else was further encouraging or indulging his addiction, well, that’s abusive by any definition I hold.
I’m not sure about his personal relationships, and don’t care much besides leaving an internet comment, but why are you so quick to dismiss that he may have experienced being manipulated or taken advantage of?
- EnPissant 11mo agoWhy does she have responsibility and he does not?
- coldtea 11mo agoBecause he wasn't a boy. He was an adult man.
- fragmede 11mo agoI see. Is there a class you take when graduating from boy to man that makes you impervious to manipulation? I must have missed the email telling me when class was being held. All I got was this Ted talk https://youtu.be/v4TVV6_2K2M https://youtu.be/v4TVV6_2K2M
- coldtea 11mo agoYes, it's called "Being an adult and taking responsibility for your choices 101". Even the legal system understands this, which is why you get harsher penalties for the same crimes as an adult.
- fragmede 11mo agoI'm looking at the syllabus for that class, but I'm not seeing the part where you become immune to manipulation. Responsible for your actions is covered in week two, but I'm really not seeing the manipulation armor section of the course. Could you help me please?
- coldtea 11mo agoSure, look in the course notes for week three: "being manipulated doesn't absolve you of responsibility either". "I was manipulated" isn't some magic wand to throw around and absolve an adult of responsibility. Even less so when the manipulation doesn't involve some elaborate con scheme, but simply the allure of a sexy younger woman, not to mention being blatantly explicit about it, about the fact they just want a casual relationship with you, and even ask you to stop being obsessed with them.
- ericmay 11mo agoIsn't she an adult woman? I don't understand your line of reasoning here. Because someone is a man they can't be manipulated or taken advantage of? Is that what you're suggesting?