Some people don't really get to "decide" for themselves. FTA: > my parents were not a love match. at 27 and 26, they were embarrassingly old by the standards

Some people don't really get to "decide" for themselves. FTA: > my parents were not a love match. at 27 and 26, they were embarrassingly old by the standards of their small chinese port town. all four of my grandparents exerted enormous pressure to force them together.