To me, this question highlights the whole problem: This is not what schools are for. Yes, it's great if they provide these things, but it's a distant secondary

To me, this question highlights the whole problem: This is not what schools are for. Yes, it's great if they provide these things, but it's a distant secondary concern. I'd rather my kid get a great education and miss out on these things, than get a poor education but have access to all these. But of course, as others have pointed out, it's a false dichotomy. You can have both.