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Sounds more like the guy just managed to get over his ex and "get back out there". How much of that was due to the fact the girl liked him already (Women don't
by jiggy2011 14y ago
Sounds more like the guy just managed to get over his ex and "get back out there".
How much of that was due to the fact the girl liked him already (Women don't generally invite single guys over on their own unless they have at least some interest in them, or are already good friends) and how much was due to his "swagger", "DHV", "negs" and "kino" is up in the air.
- badclient 14y agoThat is one of the biggest misperceptions in the mainstream: that PUA is about using negs/DHV/kino. the reality is that most good methods will emphasize that a decent part of this is a numbers game and simply about talking to enough girls. That in itself is a skill. As an example, my results shot up significantly when I went from talk to 1 girl every 4 hours at the beginning to 5-10 an hour. I happen to try and find a girl who naturally digs me than one who needs convincing.
- illuminate 14y agoIf PUA focused on the things that worked and not treating women like some sort of MMO, the practitioners would be more happy/healthy. Of course, it wouldn't be PUA then, which focuses on these silly min/max "techniques" that frighten off sane women.