That's a great first start! Try to be less passive aggressive once you meet them, otherwise you'll come off the same as you come off here on HN, and I'm sure th

That's a great first start! Try to be less passive aggressive once you meet them, otherwise you'll come off the same as you come off here on HN, and I'm sure they can find the root cause of your homophobia. I don't envy you, must be taxing to live with such condition. Hope you end up getting the help you need!