Ah, you have discovered that money is fungible. Good for you. You still were complaining about giving money to the person who is actually paying for the majori

Ah, you have discovered that money is fungible. Good for you. You still were complaining about giving money to the person who is actually paying for the majority of the kids' expenses, most of which are not practicably itemizable: the majority of the Kleenex and TP purchases, ketchup, laundry detergent, parking fees when going to the doctor or to buy things for them or the household, etc.