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Socially it depends on how well they manage to disguise themselves as male. Being visibly pregnant is a very obvious indicator that a woman who is attempting to
by aaaja 11mo ago
Socially it depends on how well they manage to disguise themselves as male. Being visibly pregnant is a very obvious indicator that a woman who is attempting to present herself as a man is not actually a man.
- dwb 11mo agoWho would go to the trouble of transitioning, against the vicious judgement of some people, if not to try to live a more authentic life? I am (visibly) non-binary, and I can tell you, I don’t do this just for the hell of it.
- aaaja 11mo ago> visibly non-binary What does this mean? At my workplace, one of my male colleagues calls himself "non-binary" and has "(they/them)" in his email signature. He looks like any other man to me. As far as I can tell, it's more like a religious belief than any kind of distinct visual style.
- dwb 11mo agoAre you having a nice time repeatedly misgendering one of my trans siblings? I see what you’re doing. A bit of basic social respect costs nothing, you know. And “visibly” as in I get funny looks and sometimes shouted abuse from passing cars. Is that enough for you?
- aaaja 11mo agoSo is looking unusual in some undefined way is what "visibly non-binary" means? I genuinely do not have any reference point for this description, and certainly couldn't tell if someone is or isn't based on looks. My male colleague who self-describes with a "non-binary" identity has no obvious visual markers of this.