3 ms·

I don't know, maybe? Maybe it's not up to the state to decide whether my kids developmental metrics allows them screen time before age 13? What kind of nanny st

I don't know, maybe? Maybe it's not up to the state to decide whether my kids developmental metrics allows them screen time before age 13? What kind of nanny state is that?

notepad0x90 1y ago
I don't think that's a nanny state. you can't give your kid alcohol for example at that age, let them drive, get married (don't get me started on some countries!), operate a chainsaw or other dangerous machinery. This is a danger to their mental development. Look at teacher forums all over. r/Teachers on reddit should be illuminating. Tech and parents sticking devices to their kids instead of raising them properly has resulted in utter disaster. If there was no harm imposed on children, I would agree that it is a nanny-state thing.
- card_zero 1y ago
  [flagged]
  - notepad0x90 1y ago
    I'm pretty sure that type of engagement is against HN rules.
- ulrikrasmussen 1y ago
  My kids (6 and 8) are pretty well raised I'd say, but they do have access to a Playstation and a PC, with clear rules and time limits for use. They are good at making friends and don't do trouble in school, and they also have healthy interests other than playing video games. This is because we actively raise them so they can learn to adjust their needs and interact with others, not because we limit their screen time. The problem today is that many parents seemingly does not raise their kids well, maybe because they don't spend enough time together, perhaps because the parents themselves spend their time scrolling reels. I myself grew up with a desktop computer from around age 7 and it shaped me early on in a positive way to be curious. Computers were also a central part of my social life. There are many positive things that kids can get out of computers, so I find the comparison with alcohol to be hyperbolic.
- ipaddr 1y ago
  In Europe alcohol is given at that age and teaches respect. Waiting until 21 / spring break teaches nothing.
  - notepad0x90 1y ago
    I don't buy that, Europe has a terrible problem with alcohol, and smoking. In the US both have gone down dramatically in the past two decades. The areas with heavy drinking tolerate giving kids alcohol like eggnog on Christmas.
kazinator 1y ago
That type of nanny state is a literal nanny state, imposing rules for children, like an actual nanny. The usual figurative nanny state refers to a situation in which unreasonable rules and regulations are imposed on the behavior of grownups, not children.
- rightbyte 1y ago
  A literal nanny state is a state that provides nannies.

I don't know, maybe? Maybe it's not up to the state to decide whether my kids developmental metrics allows them screen time before age 13? What kind of nanny state is that?

notepad0x90 1y ago

I don't think that's a nanny state. you can't give your kid alcohol for example at that age, let them drive, get married (don't get me started on some countries!), operate a chainsaw or other dangerous machinery. This is a danger to their mental development. Look at teacher forums all over. r/Teachers on reddit should be illuminating. Tech and parents sticking devices to their kids instead of raising them properly has resulted in utter disaster. If there was no harm imposed on children, I would agree that it is a nanny-state thing.

card_zero 1y ago
[flagged]
- notepad0x90 1y ago
  I'm pretty sure that type of engagement is against HN rules.
ulrikrasmussen 1y ago
My kids (6 and 8) are pretty well raised I'd say, but they do have access to a Playstation and a PC, with clear rules and time limits for use. They are good at making friends and don't do trouble in school, and they also have healthy interests other than playing video games. This is because we actively raise them so they can learn to adjust their needs and interact with others, not because we limit their screen time. The problem today is that many parents seemingly does not raise their kids well, maybe because they don't spend enough time together, perhaps because the parents themselves spend their time scrolling reels. I myself grew up with a desktop computer from around age 7 and it shaped me early on in a positive way to be curious. Computers were also a central part of my social life. There are many positive things that kids can get out of computers, so I find the comparison with alcohol to be hyperbolic.
ipaddr 1y ago
In Europe alcohol is given at that age and teaches respect. Waiting until 21 / spring break teaches nothing.
- notepad0x90 1y ago
  I don't buy that, Europe has a terrible problem with alcohol, and smoking. In the US both have gone down dramatically in the past two decades. The areas with heavy drinking tolerate giving kids alcohol like eggnog on Christmas.

kazinator 1y ago

That type of nanny state is a literal nanny state, imposing rules for children, like an actual nanny. The usual figurative nanny state refers to a situation in which unreasonable rules and regulations are imposed on the behavior of grownups, not children.

rightbyte 1y ago
A literal nanny state is a state that provides nannies.