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> I'm sorry you feel like this Nope. Start by apologizing for the impact of what YOU did. Contributor of 20y just quit and provide a clear list of what is wron
by cryptonym 11mo ago
> I'm sorry you feel like this
Nope. Start by apologizing for the impact of what YOU did. Contributor of 20y just quit and provide a clear list of what is wrong. "your feelings" and "your struggles" is not respectful.
You should be sorry that YOU pushed changes on them in a way that impacted badly their work and made them quit. Thank them for the feedback and try to open a discussion on finding a positive outcome.
- yreg 11mo agoBut they might not be sorry. Being sorry about how the bot works implies an intention to change/remove it.
- skylurk 11mo agoYep, it's pretty clear they are not that sorry, from the tone. They just want to smooth things over. No ACK of making a mistake or changing anything.
- musicale 11mo ago"I'm sorry for how you feel about this" (we won't admit that we harmed you with our bad behavior, and it's probably your fault for feeling pain.) "your struggles" (it's your fault that you were harmed by our bad behavior.) "Hop on a call" (we are the boss, you aren't, and your concerns are trivial.)