I share the exasperation about the lack of empathy. I know these providers are humans and would ask the same questions. They probably negotiated their car, ho

I share the exasperation about the lack of empathy. I know these providers are humans and would ask the same questions. They probably negotiated their car, housekeeper over a few hundred dollars. But when I ask about $10k here or there for critical care suddenly I’m greedy or unrealistic?