> if it never unlocks meaningful progress it has already unlocked meaningful progress, that is undeniable. the expectations are a whole other thing though. the

> if it never unlocks meaningful progress it has already unlocked meaningful progress, that is undeniable. the expectations are a whole other thing though. the best advice I got when I was getting married from my wise uncle was “as long as neither of you come into this with any expectations and just enjoy your life together you have a chance at a lasting happiness…”