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I'm glad the sentence structure is pleasing to your logical brain. As a counterpoint, my family has generational trauma from decades of economic stress and tha
by saulpw 1y ago
I'm glad the sentence structure is pleasing to your logical brain. As a counterpoint, my family has generational trauma from decades of economic stress and that cliche feels minimizing to me.
- rafabulsing 1y agoI live in a third world country, and although I'm (by our standards) doing pretty well right now, both my parents come from very little. My mom, as a young woman, at one point even lost everything she had in a fire. I was fortunate enough (through their hard work, and undoubtedly some luck) to mostly experience economic stability growing up, though we did still go through a rough patch when I was a kid. The person I'm engaged with, and their family, had/has it even worse, and it's not hard to see the ways it affected and still affects them. My point being, I'm no stranger to a family history of financial hardship. I'm sorry for whatever you and your family have had to endure. But, politely, screw off with the implication that the only way I feel the way that I do/say the things that I say are fruit of some privileged upbringing that couldn't possibly understand money problems.