You are assuming people are a still photograph of what you see in the fraction of a moment that it takes you to judge them, and they never ever change, not even

You are assuming people are a still photograph of what you see in the fraction of a moment that it takes you to judge them, and they never ever change, not even after you’ve left and stopped paying attention. That’s not how you work and it’s not how people work. It’s not how anyone works. Give others some credit.