We did it with every kid/parent and name combination. The only time we where ever asked to show papers was when the names didn't match. It shouldn't be that way

We did it with every kid/parent and name combination. The only time we where ever asked to show papers was when the names didn't match. It shouldn't be that way, but IME it's a factor. As you point out, being the parent doesn't really matter in that case, it needs to be proven that both parent agree on the kid leaving the country.