> And, frankly, it's literally the bank's job not to make loans that people will default on too frequently It's not the bank's job though to decide whether it'

> And, frankly, it's literally the bank's job not to make loans that people will default on too frequently It's not the bank's job though to decide whether it's ok for you to treat the house as a long-term asset which consumes a part of your cash flow, or as a speculative gamble. You can find a bank that will support either, but it's on you to decide which road to take. And if somebody takes the speculative road and loses, then it's not exactly the banks' fault. The adult should take responsibility for their own actions. > it's not unreasonable to trust your bank and their advisors not to make a loan you won't be able to pay back. No, it's not reasonable at all. Loan officers do not have a fiduciary duty towards you. They have a fiduciary duty towards the bank, so that's what they worry about - to take care of bank's interests. Assuming those interests would always align with yours is a dangerous naiveté. There are financial advisors who are fiduciaries - and you can hire one if you need - but you won't find them in your mortage bank's loan office. Yes, the bank is interested, in most cases, not to produce overtly bad loans - but that doesn't mean they care how you are going to pay it, and there's a lot of chance they'd sell your loan to another servicer in a year or two anyway. They have no duty to figure out if taking this loan won't harm you, that's your duty.