This 'secret' advice is pretty old and it's very useful for prompting a perspective shift. The version I have in my quotes file (from 1998, surely not the first

This 'secret' advice is pretty old and it's very useful for prompting a perspective shift. The version I have in my quotes file (from 1998, surely not the first time anyone ever noticed the trick) is: "Beware 'We should', extend a hand to 'How do I'... --Alan Cox, from http://news.slashdot.org/story/98/10/13/1423253/featurecathedrals-bazaars-and-the-town-council http://news.slashdot.org/story/98/10/13/1423253/featurecathe... (The rest of the paper is pretty good too!)