Every time I hear people say that Mac os/iOS is so logical and intuitive I wonder if it is all just a big conspiracy where I am the only one who get's a phone o

Every time I hear people say that Mac os/iOS is so logical and intuitive I wonder if it is all just a big conspiracy where I am the only one who get's a phone or a computer that is so full of bat-crap stupid decisions that I want to scream. Mac os is not intuitive. iPhones are not intuitive. I have had to use one for years and I am still confused about when I should use the settings app and when I should change the settings in the app. And to whomever thought it was good idea to get camera access by swiping the lock screen: Did you ever meet a three year old? Why can't I turn it off?