Dictionary definitions often reflect false folk psychology, but we are still stuck with these words as a common vocabulary. What I mean is that your talent at

Dictionary definitions often reflect false folk psychology, but we are still stuck with these words as a common vocabulary. What I mean is that your talent at Thing was not that you are innately skilled at it, but that you really enjoy doing and getting better at Thing. That is something that it is very hard to cultivate from scratch, and either you have it or you don’t.