And in general, if one is in a position where they have little experience but integrity, it might not even occur to them that someone would be doing this. You'

And in general, if one is in a position where they have little experience but integrity, it might not even occur to them that someone would be doing this. You'd never do it to someone else and you project your attitudes on to them. If you strive to see the good in people it can take your attention away from the bad and leave you in such nasty situations.