Ah fair enough, that wasn't completely transparent to me. "Fighting and hiding emotions is counterproductive if your goal is clarity and internal harmony" is a

Ah fair enough, that wasn't completely transparent to me. "Fighting and hiding emotions is counterproductive if your goal is clarity and internal harmony" is a life-lesson that took me all too long to learn, so I'm a bit militant about pushing back on the "fight/hide/ignore" approach to this.