Unsolicited advise, that's one thing I've learned about far too late in my life. You know, if you have a brother or someone really, really close, and you're pr

Unsolicited advise, that's one thing I've learned about far too late in my life. You know, if you have a brother or someone really, really close, and you're preparing for a wedding or a funeral, and they have a shirt that look absolutely ridiculous and you tell them that, they look at you, you match your eyes, and they trust you with their life. Well that doesn't happen in normal life. Normally, what happens in ordinary life is you have a colleague that looks, smells or did something stinky, you want to be the good guy, you let him know and he's like "omg, he hates me, all hands to battle stations, that guy, aim that guy, he tried to wrong me!". And if he's slightly less on the spectrum than you - you're toasted. You're under fire, and there's no getting out. And this happens every time you try to swim up the river in this current.