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real friends are people who don't abandon you when you do something they don't like. the problem is, until that happens you can't tell the difference.
by em-bee 1y ago
real friends are people who don't abandon you when you do something they don't like. the problem is, until that happens you can't tell the difference.
- kridsdale1 1y agoThese days the bar for that thing seems low. Like making a post on Facebook.
- watwut 1y agoI dunno, you cam turn what you said into "real friends is an enabler of whatever I do and a doormat". Someone leaving after x did something they dont like ... may just be former real friend with a backbone and moral values.
- em-bee 1y agono, the reverse is that a real friend would confront you and help you correct what he thinks is a mistake, or at least discuss it to understand why, instead of canceling the friendship and worse stabbing you in the back. if they can't confront someone for what they think is a mistake, then it's them who have no backbone, and potentially also the enabler, because you can't change someones behavior by walking away from them.
- rossant 1y agoOr when something bad happens to you.