> - IMO it makes you a better/gentler person. I don't hold grudges because I can't be arsed to remember why exactly I was mad at someone. Something I have to k

> - IMO it makes you a better/gentler person. I don't hold grudges because I can't be arsed to remember why exactly I was mad at someone. Something I have to keep reminding people. The person you are mad at probably has no recollection or memory of what upset you.