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Even better, ask Anna what she wants to do. Maybe bowling on Sunday afternoon is more her thing.

• bonoboTP 1y ago
  Yep, if the group is constantly doing stuff she doesn't like, maybe she needs a better fitting group. I mean it may feel nice to be "included" in the invites to all the loud parties that the group is doing all the time, but if you hate loud parties, it is even better to be included in invites by a group that does stuff you like better. These invites that are always declined only provide an illusion of inclusion.
  • walterbell 1y ago
    > needs a better fitting group From the article: After that first semester, the friend group disbanded and we all went our separate ways.
  • nenenejej 1y ago
    Sort of. Usually people are into more than one thing. It is rare for partying to be the only thing a group is into.