Making demands about how you want to be contacted when the group has been trying to include you for years is a dick move at minimum. You can say sorry I'll call

Making demands about how you want to be contacted when the group has been trying to include you for years is a dick move at minimum. You can say sorry I'll call you back in 10 if you are busy. Trying to dress this up as adhd/age/head of household (what is that even??) is just expecting the world to revolve around you No, learn to be a decent person.