Judging yourself by how unscrupulous people react to you is a common pitfall - it poisons your perception of others and blinds you to yourself. Tangentially: I

Judging yourself by how unscrupulous people react to you is a common pitfall - it poisons your perception of others and blinds you to yourself. Tangentially: I was confused by the usage of the ambiguous word, "weird", as shorthand for "bigoted". I thought you were literally asking what "mtf" meant.