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> You’ll probably take this the wrong way but I have no other way to say it. If are not in grief over your past, you truly had a poor past, or you have not yet
by surgical_fire 1y ago
> You’ll probably take this the wrong way but I have no other way to say it. If are not in grief over your past, you truly had a poor past, or you have not yet realized the significance of it.
Not GP, but this is absolutely wrong.
I had a good childhood with loving parents, I had many friends growing up, and I enjoyed my free time.
I also enjoy that it came to an end. All good things nust end, else they have no value.
This is mostly because I achieved nice things in life. In many ways the present is the best time of my life. I embrace change. I like my adulthood, and as I grow older I will enjoy my old age while my health allows to.
Dwelling in the past is unhealthy.
- r14c 1y agoYeah honestly. I've made peace with the past being past. Life isn't all sunshine and daisies obviously, but its also not an inevitable depression. Things changing is a part of life and every new stage has different experiences available to it. That's really neat imo. Learning to make peace with that inevitability is not easy, but its a part of having a healthy outlook.