The key is to talk with you SO and understand their point of view. Odds are they already feel that they've lost you to work for a significant portion of the wee

The key is to talk with you SO and understand their point of view. Odds are they already feel that they've lost you to work for a significant portion of the week... so to then say that you need another night or weekend day can be a lot. It's all about communication and balance and no one answer is right for every couple. My best advice: Talk to your SO and reevaluate your priorities. You might end up with the same priority list after you do so (which is fine) - but give it a hard look for yourself and your SO.