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Most motorcycle gangs require a 1 year hang around, plus the introduced person has to be known for at least a year. The conventional wisdom is to wait 2 years
by mothballed 1y ago
Most motorcycle gangs require a 1 year hang around, plus the introduced person has to be known for at least a year.
The conventional wisdom is to wait 2 years to marry someone, and 1 year at the absolute bare minimum if you are old or at the edge of the fertility window or in some extenuating circumstance.
This seems somewhat confirmed by the fact it outlives the measure of these long-running scams. Perhaps the conventional wisdom is correct.
- red-iron-pine 1y agofor the average person, the limerence phase -- where your brain produces dopamine instead of oxytocin when around your partner -- lasts around 20-26 months. aka the honeymoon phase. wait until the dopamine hits stop and then see where you stand with that marriage...
- tomjakubowski 1y agoI've never heard limerence described in physiological terms like this before, do you recommend any sources for more on this?
- red-iron-pine 1y agosearching "limerence dopamine" will get you basically all of the info you need. skip the first 6-8 obviously AI gen articles and hit wikipedia or some of the more reputable Medium writers. that said, chances are the first links, even if AI generated, will link to some sort of research.