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I've been wearing glasses for short sightedness for my whole life and also don't wear contacts because the idea of putting them in freaks me out. I always thin
by nickjj 1y ago
I've been wearing glasses for short sightedness for my whole life and also don't wear contacts because the idea of putting them in freaks me out.
I always think about it from the point of view of what would happen if I want to do extended travel. Which method minimizes risk around something going wrong.
For example:
If you put your contacts in luggage and that gets lost or stolen now you have a really big problem with your sight in a foreign country.
If you're dependent on drops, it's the same problem as contacts.
In both cases, even if you do things to minimize losing them they have a limited supply. What if you want to travel for a year, are you comfortable getting the same type you have at home sent to you in a foreign country?
If you're dependent on glasses, typically you wear them all the time so the risk is them getting broken somehow which is rare. I've been wearing glasses my whole life and have never once broke or damaged them. The biggest risk is falling asleep with them on and rolling over them so it's critically important to move them off to the side somewhere. That also means being extra careful if you're sleeping on a bus or outdoors, you need to be really mindful of where your glasses are at all times if you're not wearing them.
The downside to glasses is they can prevent you from experiences. Casual swimming is annoying, especially alone where you also want to watch your bag that could be hundreds of feet away. Also practicing martial arts with sparring is a problem. Showering without being able to see clear isn't too bad in practice but it's a daily thing.
Surgery has the highest potential upside since you effectively become "normal" but the surgery has to go well so there's a risk factor to think about now. I only know 3 people who have gotten lasik in the last ~15 years. 1 of them sees massive halos at night time with lights so they can't drive at night. 1 of them has to use eye drops for dryness even 2 years after surgery. 1 of them had it done about 10 years ago and has no negative side effects but the effects of the surgery are slowly wearing off to where they will need another surgery in the next few years since their eyes have changed.
Personally if I knew surgery had a 99.999% side effect free success rate and at worst I would only need to do it every 10-15 years I would do it but I just can't get past the risk factor. Sight is just too important. I look forward to a day where this is a fully solved problem in a non-invasive way.
Until then I compromise with glasses.
- terribleperson 1y agoThe travel risks of contacts are manageable. Always travel with a fresh spare pair, a contacts case (to store the old pair), and a pair of glasses in a hard case. The glasses go in your personal bag, not your luggage.
- secondcoming 1y agoBut then you need to make sure you have access to clean water in order to put in your lenses.
- terribleperson 1y agoI don't use water to put in lenses. It might be troublesome to clean my hands without clean water, though...
- mathgeek 1y agoI assumed GP meant for the handwashing part. General advice I've always seen is to wash your hands before touching contacts.
- secondcoming 1y agoYes, exactly this.
- Telaneo 1y agoIf the risk management strategy of contacts involves having a pair of glasses on hand, why not jump straight to that (unless you don't like glasses in the first place and only use them if all else fails)? Then again, my eyesight isn't bad enough for me breaking my glasses on a holiday to be a potential problem. I've never broken any of my pairs before, and even if they were lost, I'm still able to read and get around. It's just more unpleasant to do so. But I still prefer glasses and wear them pretty much at all times.
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- secondcoming 1y agoI wore glasses since I was maybe 10 and then contact lenses for decades. I got sick of the daily ritual of having to clean my hands, put them in and then take them out at night. My eyesight was pretty bad with a large prescription and keratoconus on top (that I did have C3R surgery for). I was dismayed when I found out I wasn't eligible for laser surgery so I just accepted that I'd have to deal with the inconvenience of glasses/lenses during the most active years of my life. Then I found out that you can do Refractive Lens Exchange (same surgery that they do for people with cataracts) and went for that a few years ago. It isn't perfect but - for me at least - it was worth the risk. I do get issues with glares when it's dark but when it's bright there are no side effects. I also had to get a YAG laser treatment about a year later due to some 'clouding' but that not a big deal other than the expense. When I last went for an eye test I was told I had 20/20 vision in one eye and I didn't believe the optician. I've long forgotten what 20/20 vision is like so maybe it's just overrated. I can also never get cataracts!
- heavyset_go 1y ago> I always think about it from the point of view of what would happen if I want to do extended travel. Which method minimizes risk around something going wrong. This actually happened to me. Spent two months on the other side of the planet. When I landed I realized I didn't pack my contacts. I just wore the same pair the whole time and was fine.
- nickjj 1y agoIs there a comfort difference between daily contacts and monthly? When you wore yours for 2 months, what type was it?
- heavyset_go 1y agoThese were dailies. I was either wearing an Acuvue brand or I had already switched to Daysoft, I forget. I talked to my optometrist and they told me that most contacts are the same material, and bi-weeklies/etc are just slightly thicker for durability. I was diligent about cleaning them, while at the same time being gentle so I didn't tear them. I was also very cautious about swimming with them, touching them or otherwise doing anything that might promote eye infections. Comfort-wise, they were fine, but it felt like they shrank slightly over time, if that makes sense.