This is a good comment explains why discussions so often are so painful. I quite often get explained to me the things I already know, in long monologues. Even

This is a good comment explains why discussions so often are so painful. I quite often get explained to me the things I already know, in long monologues. Even things that I have created, only having people explain them to me years later, but using terms somewhat incorrectly etc. And then I'm probably also doing that to other people.