> Happiness is not a single metric you can use to determine what is best. If you mean happiness is not the only metric, we're agreed. > Sacrificing to have a

> Happiness is not a single metric you can use to determine what is best. If you mean happiness is not the only metric, we're agreed. > Sacrificing to have a rewarding, independent life without children ... is definitely not an any way inferior to a “happier” one raising kids. In the way that it makes makes most people less happy, it is.