If your wife has a PhD, I doubt any protections you put in place will stop her from doing it again. And it's very hard to convince people, often even more so yo

If your wife has a PhD, I doubt any protections you put in place will stop her from doing it again. And it's very hard to convince people, often even more so your spouse. I know it doesn't answer your question, and I really feel bad for you. Hope you manage to figure something out.