This sounds to me like getting into "You say you're depressed? Come on, snap out of it!" territory. I guess I consider psychological disorders to be a disorder

This sounds to me like getting into "You say you're depressed? Come on, snap out of it!" territory. I guess I consider psychological disorders to be a disorder when you aren't able to "snap out of it" or "just do things that are unpleasant". Like yes, I do things that are unpleasant - ADHD doesn't mean I live a life of ease, avoiding unpleasantness all day long.